The outward is only a creation of the inward. That which you see outside of yourself is a reflection of that which you have allowed yourself to imagine. Understand that it is nothing more than that. Relax into the knowing that the picture any being sees before itself is one that they themselves have created. Whether that is a picture of something undesirable or something made from their wildest dreams. And also understand that you cannot judge what another’s situation is, whether good or bad, for you cannot see the outpicturing from the point of view that they are seeing it. Do not judge others for having a good life or a bad life. For their life as viewed by them, from their perspective, will be different than as viewed from your perspective. It is all a matter of circumstance and each has his own. To each his own, as it were.